The final couple of days of the Christmas holiday from school are upon us. It’s time to sort out the uniform, PE kit and book bag ready for Tuesday. We have really enjoyed our Christmas break but now it is time to start getting back into the school routine again. My son has only had reading homework over the holidays. I must admit that he has not done it though. He has been reading a lot, annuals, new story book as well as his books of facts and the occasional joke book but no school books have been read. We will hope to look at it on Monday. Possibly.
Soon we will be getting ready to start with the book reviews, spellings and times tables homework too. What type of homework do your children come home with? Do you find it difficult to get your children to actually do their homework? What homework help would be most useful to motivating your child to complete their tasks? I aim to write some future blog posts on ideas to help with homework so it would be great to write posts that would be most useful to my readers. I look forward to hearing from you!
Last week, my son absolutely refused to learn any of the four times table facts he had been given for his homework. “But it’s too hard, Mum,” and, “I can’t do any of them,” were the responses when he was asked to look at them. I tried to work with him to read through them but on that particular week, he was having none of it. With tears beginning to form in his big, blue eyes, I decided not to push it too much. He always seems to remember the particular times when he has been upset about something in the past and these instances stay with him. Negative mental blocks are not what he needs. Knowing my son, I knew that I had applied enough pressure (bearing in mind he is only six) and that he needed to understand the consequences of not learning these times table facts. Usually, he would come home proudly telling me about his scores out of ten for his weekly tests but after not even agreeing to read through them at all, he kept his test book in his book bag. It was obvious, from the disappointed look on his face when I found the test book, that he had realised the immediate consequences. His score was the lowest he’d ever had and I think it shocked him a little. We calmly discussed why it had gone so badly as well as how he felt during the test. Deciding together that just reading them through was not working for this set of times tables facts, I tried to think of different ways that he could learn them in a way that was more interesting and personal to him.
Here are some of the ideas we tried:
These are just some of the ways I helped my son to explore the four times table. He was more responsive to this and told me that it had helped him lots. Maybe the four times table is not as difficult as he first thought.